3-Month Decision Support Program
Do I Stay or Do I Go?
From Paralysis
to Confident Choice
You’ve been sitting on that fence long enough. Three months of structured support to help you hear your own voice โ and trust it.
Payment plans available
Start With a $49 Clarity Call
Zero agenda about which way you choose โ stay or leave, this is your decision.
If Any of This Sounds Like You
You’ve been stuck in this loop for a while now.
Most women who find me have been asking themselves the same question for two, three โ sometimes five years. It’s not that you can’t decide. It’s that every path feels uncertain, and one 30-minute session isn’t enough to see the whole picture.
What Makes This Different
Not therapy. Not divorce coaching. Decision support.
There’s a gap in the market. Therapists help you understand why you’re stuck. Divorce coaches assume you’ve already decided to leave. Relationship coaches want to save the marriage. I’m the one sitting in the middle โ with zero agenda โ guiding you make the actual decision.
Zero Agenda
I am not invested in which way you choose. Stay or leave โ I help you get there from power, not paralysis. Your life, your call.
Time to See Clearly
You may not be able to visualize your future in 30 minutes. Three months gives you the space to try on different scenarios and build real clarity layer by layer.
Structured Path Forward
Not open-ended conversation. Each month has a focus โ financial reality, emotional grounding, and a clear decision framework โ so you’re always moving.
The Program Structure
Three months. One decision. Real clarity.
Each month builds on the last. We start where most women are most stuck โ the financial fear โ then move into emotional grounding, and finish with a clear framework for your actual decision.
Financial Reality Check
“Can I even afford to leave?” โ Let’s actually find out.
The number one reason women stay stuck isn’t the relationship โ it’s financial fear. We tackle that head-on with real numbers, real tools, and a real plan. Whether you stay or go, you’ll know exactly where you stand.
- Week 1: Financial separation & reality check
- Week 2: Building a survival budget
- Week 3: Money management fundamentals
- Week 4: Your financial independence roadmap
Healing, Self-Care & Love Languages
Getting grounded so you can hear yourself think.
Decision-making from an emotional freefall is nearly impossible. Month 2 focuses on stress management, rebuilding self-worth, setting real boundaries, and understanding your love language โ the last piece matters more than most people realize.
- Week 1: Stress management & love language intro
- Week 2: Rebuilding self-worth
- Week 3: Healthy boundaries
- Week 4: Your support network
Mindshift, Decision Clarity & Moving Forward
From spinning your wheels to your confident answer.
Month 3 is where everything lands. Growth mindset work, processing grief without getting buried in it, emotional regulation for the hard moments โ and building the actual decision framework that lets you move forward with confidence.
- Week 1: Resilience mindset & processing loss
- Week 2: Embracing possibilities
- Week 3: Emotional tools & holiday survival
- Week 4: Your decision & next steps
What’s Included
Everything you need to get from paralysis to power.
12 Private Guidance SessionsWeekly 60-minute 1:1 sessions over 3 months with Franya directly โ no handoffs, no assistants.
Decision Framework ToolkitPersonal Values Assessment, “What If” Scenario Planning Guide, and Communication Strategy Framework.
Financial Reality ToolsThe Financial Safety Assessment, Budget Workbook, Bill Assignment System, and “Yes, You Can Afford It” Calculator.
Love Languages AssessmentUnderstanding your love language โ and your partner’s โ changes how you see the whole relationship dynamic.
Emotional Temperature CheckA structured self-assessment across 7 key areas to bring objectivity to what you’re feeling.
Accountability Check-Ins (if needed)Between-session messaging support so you’re never stuck for a week waiting for answers.
Personalized Self-Care PlanBuilt around what actually works for you โ whether that’s a hike, a long bath, or a solo Saturday morning doing nothing.
Foundational Resource LibraryCurated book recommendations and tools that align with where you are each month in the program.
Is This Right for You?
This program is built for one very specific woman.
This is for you if โ
- โ You’ve been asking “do I stay or go?” for more than 6 months and feel no closer to an answer
- โ You want guidance from someone with zero agenda โ not someone pushing you toward divorce or away from it
- โ Financial fear is a major factor keeping you stuck, and you need real numbers to work with
- โ You’re ready to invest three months in getting this resolved rather than spinning another year
- โ You want structure โ not open-ended therapy โ with concrete tools and a clear path forward
- โ You’re a woman aged 25โ70 who knows she deserves to live on her own terms, whatever that looks like
This probably isn’t a fit if โ
- โYou’ve already made your decision and are in execution mode (the R.I.S.E. Resilient program is a better fit)
- โYou’re looking for someone to tell you what to do
- โYou want couples counseling or marriage reconciliation work
- โYou’re in immediate danger โ please call the National DV Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 first
- โYou’re not ready to look honestly at your financial picture and make some decisions
The clarity I gained in just 30 minutes with Frรคnya gave me more direction than months of going in circles inside my own head. I can only imagine what three months looks like.
โ Sarah M.
Your Guide Through This
I know what it feels like to rebuild a life from scratch โ I came home one night in January 1988 to an empty house. He’d taken everything, closed four bank accounts, and disappeared. I threw myself a party.
That’s not bravado. It’s what happens when you’ve been doing everything solo for years anyway and you know, somewhere deep down, that you’ll be okay. I worked three jobs, built a budget with a notebook and a ruler, and bought my first house eleven years later.
For more than 30 years I’ve been helping women navigate impossible-feeling transitions โ widows, military spouses, women leaving abusive situations, women who just can’t decide. The pattern I kept seeing: financial fear is almost always the real reason women stay stuck. So we start there.
The Investment
Three months of structured support to resolve a decision you’ve been carrying for years.
Do I Stay or Do I Go?
3-Month Program ยท 12 Private Sessions
Payment plans available โ ask during your clarity call
- 12 weekly 60-minute private guidance sessions
- Complete financial reality toolkit
- Decision Framework + Values Assessment
- Love Languages assessment & application
- Emotional Temperature Check across 7 areas
- between-session accountability check-ins (if needed)
- Personalized self-care action plan
- Curated resource library access
Not sure yet? The clarity call is the perfect first step. $49 ยท 30 minutes ยท No pressure.
Hear your own voice.
Gain clarity.
Stay or leave โ you choose, from power not paralysis. The first step is a 30-minute call.
Book Your $49 Clarity CallNot ready for the program? The clarity call stands on its own โ you’ll leave with at least one concrete next step.
