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You’re Not Alone If You’re Feeling…

  • * “My brain is at capacity” from endless mental circles
  • * Exhausted from going back and forth about what to do
  • * Anxious about finances and whether you could make it on your own
  • * Concerned about staying “for the children” but wondering if that’s right
  • * Unheard when you try to express what’s really happening
  • * Unsure if you’re overreacting or seeing things clearly
  • * Like your identity has gotten lost in your relationship
  • * Afraid of making the wrong decision and regretting it later

This mental and emotional drain doesn’t have to continue.

 

Are You Stuck On The Fence?

That exhausting place between staying and leaving, where your mind goes in circles, and nobody seems to truly understand.

You don't need more opinions. You need clarity.

R.I.S.E. Framework Section (Methodology)

The Path from Confusion to Clarity

Whether you choose a single 30-minute clarity call or a comprehensive program, you’ll benefit from the R.I.S.E. Frameworkโ€”a structured approach to help you:

  • * Reclaim your voice when you’ve been unheard for too long
  • * Illuminate your options beyond just “stay” or “go”
  • * Strengthen your foundation emotionally and practically
  • * Empower your decision with confidence and self-trust

This isn’t about telling you what to do. It’s about helping you hear your own wisdom more clearly.

 

What Is SHero Empowered About?

Are you among the military spouses facing unique challenges, or part of the broader community where many feel lost, overwhelmed, or alone after divorce or losing your partner?

As a military spouse, maybe you sacrificed your career through constant moves every 2-3 years, deployments lasting weeks or months, and the reality that only 33% of military families feel they belong to their civilian communities.

Your future plans were shattered. Everything changed in an instant on your journey called life.

What did you give up?

Your career opportunities due to frequent relocations? Your support system with each move? The financial security that came with two incomes?

The loneliness and anxiety crept in – magnified by being far from family, isolated in unfamiliar communities, or managing everything solo during deployments.

Anger consumed you.
You lost yourself and your community.
Rebuilding emotionally and financially seems impossible when 25% of military spouses report food insecurity and struggle to cover basic expenses.

Friends try to relate but don’t understand military life’s unique challenges.

They tell you to move on, even though you might be among the 12.5% of military spouses who screen positive for major depression or the 16.7% experiencing generalized anxiety – rates nearly double the general population. In fact, 44% of military spouses have sought counseling during their partner’s active duty service.

You need more.

-You want women who’ve been there.
-Who understand deployment loneliness, the sacrifice of following his career, and the strength it takes to rebuild your identity after your life was structured around his service.
-Who will support you until you find your light again.

SHero Empowered Gives You:
๐Ÿ—ธ Judgment-free space to open up, be heard, even scream
๐Ÿ—ธ Genuine connections with those who understand both military and civilian transitions
๐Ÿ—ธ Practical advice and motivation from women further along the journey
๐Ÿ—ธ Structure and accountability to move forward after feeling stuck
๐Ÿ—ธ Community that gets the unique challenges of military life and starting over

More than just an online community, it’s an empowerment circle where dreams reignite, and new visions are born through empathy, courage, and shared understanding of sacrifice and strength.

Hi, I’m Franya.

Picture of Franya (c) 2025 William B. Isley

As a military wife, I’d learned to manage everything alone during my husband’s frequent deployments.

But in 1988, I came home to find my Senior Master Sergeant husband had emptied our three-bedroom house and our bank accounts while I was at work.

That sudden ending forced me to rebuild from scratch, working multiple jobs and rediscovering who I was beyond my marriage.

Thankfully, those deployment skills – adapting to uncertainty, handling crises solo, and creating stability from chaos – became my foundation for starting over.

The same independence that helped me thrive during military life guided me through complete financial and emotional recovery.

I know what it’s like to face a relationship crossroads. And for over 30 years, I’ve been helping women navigate this journey with straight-talking support and practical guidance.

I don’t sugarcoat reality. I do shine light on the path forward.

 

What Other Say

Nicole R.
Nicole R.Store Manager

From Confusion to Clarity

I knew in the pit of my stomach what I needed to do, but I couldn't admit it to myself. Hearing it from Franya helped me finally acknowledge my truth. For the first time, I felt truly heard without judgment.

Sarah T.
Sarah T.

The clarity I gained in just 30 minutes gave me more direction than months of going in circles in my own head."

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What We Can Do For You?

“Do I Stay or Do I Go?” 30-Minute Clarity Call

For women who need immediate guidance on their relationship decision
$35 - One focused session

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A comprehensive approach to gaining decision clarity and confidence
$1,440 - Includes 12 weekly coaching sessions and a complete toolkit

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R.I.S.E. Resilient: 6-Month Transformation

For rebuilding strength and starting the new book of your life.
$2,760 - For women who have made their decision and are ready to build a strong foundation for the first chapter of the new book

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